gender marker not be confused with grave marker. not to be mistaken for a goal post or a golden goose. not to be confused with syrup from the oldest maple tree. not to be wrongly identified as mason jars full of watermelon ants. not to be falsely said to be a god. not to be confused with weeping. not to be incorrectly seen as a portal in belly of a space ship. not to be mistaken for a loose tooth. not to be inaccurately depicted as a sinking ship. not to be confused with mirrors or water shoes. not to be confused with the silver jaw of an angel. not to be mistaken for a way out or a way towards validity. not to be misguided by ammonites & their quest for jewelry in the primordial shopping mall. not to be confused with our mothers or our fathers. not to be misinterpreted as prophecy. not to be unexacted as a garbage island. not to be spoken of on unfounded terms of "sweat" & "spirit." not to be mistaken as a highway towards personhood. not to be confused with grief. not to be confused with joy. not to be saltines or shoelaces. not to be confused with realness.